Or Both?
There are few men out there who have not at least once in their lifetime ever taken out a ruler and measured their male member. A quick peek through history will tell you, poets, philosophers, writers and artists alike have all tried to define the average and above average size of their manhood. Erotic art is full of examples of exaggerated manhood, because the penis size mirrors a guy’s sexual power and vigor in symbolic forms. It’s not difficult to see why bigger is thought to be better even in this new millennium.

So going back to the age-old question; “does size really matter?” Both men and women alike are desperate to know what really is the answer. Men are as obsessed with their penis size as women are with their breast size. In fact a lot of them are keen on finding out ways to make their penis larger. That explains why the penis enlargement industry is booming by leaps and bounds, offering everything pills, traction devices, transdermal patches and even herbal pills to massively increase sperm volume.

So far the studies I’ve read show that the average penis size is not the 12″ poles being swung about in porn movies. Actually, the average is between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth. Now there’s one myth that I’ll tell you needs to be put to rest: penis size is completely unrelated to height or hand, feet, and nose size simply because there is no bone in the penis.

You probably heard it from countless women that “it’s not the size that matters but how you use it.” Are they telling the truth when men are listening? Girth may indeed matter also. As what some reproductive therapists explain countless times, it has something to do with stimulating the female G-spot which is supposed to be located about two inches inside the upper wall of the vagina.

Anyway, personal preference is still based on the individual woman, some may like it big. I was at a party not to long ago. Three ex-girlfriends of a good friend of mine we’re all comparing notes on guess what? My friends penis. They all said he had an average penis length with good girth. 2 out of the three we’re not satisfied and after a couple drinks exclaimed that they loved big cocks and that they knew the difference. They could feel it. And also enjoyed giving oral sex (blowjobs) more. One said to me “there’s more to play with!” I found this very revealing. Of course I kept everything confidential from my friend and am not naming any names here. Another said that she likes her man to have a “meatier” penis, meaning fuller penis. She said that the nerves in her vaginal walls are better stimulated during sex. Thus, girth might be significant here given since a meatier penis can create friction and sensation that most women crave during a romp in the sack. I’ve decided that increasing my girth is just as important as increasing my length and it will be added to my goals.